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Hel: The Norse Goddess Who Made Death Awkward for Everyone

Hel: The Norse Goddess Who Made Death Awkward for Everyone

October 23, 2025
11 min read
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So you want to know about Hel, the Norse goddess of the underworld?

Good. Because she's probably the most misunderstood figure in all of Norse mythology, and that's saying something in a pantheon where Odin hangs himself from a tree for fun and Thor dresses in drag to get his hammer back.

Let's start with the obvious: Hel isn't evil. She's not torturing souls or cackling over lakes of fire. She's basically running the most depressing DMV in all the Nine Realms, processing the paperwork for everyone who died of old age, disease, or just general non-heroic circumstances.

And yeah, she happens to be half-corpse. But we'll get to that.

Who Is Hel in Norse Mythology? (And Why Her Family Reunion Would Be Terrifying)

Hel is the daughter of Loki and the giantess Angrboda. Which means her siblings are Fenrir (the giant wolf destined to eat Odin) and Jörmungandr (the world serpent who's literally wrapped around the entire planet).

Family dinners must have been interesting.

The Aesir gods took one look at Loki's children and collectively freaked out. Odin had visions showing these three would cause major problems during Ragnarok. So he did what any reasonable all-father would do: he threw the snake into the ocean, chained the wolf in magical bondage, and yeeted the girl into the underworld.

Hel got Helheim. The realm of the dead who didn't die gloriously in battle.

Here's where it gets weird. The gods basically gave a young goddess an entire realm to rule because they were scared of her. They made her the cosmic landlord of death itself. And then they acted surprised when she turned out to be really, really good at the job.

Think about that for a second. The Aesir created their own problem. They took someone who might have been neutral and made her the literal ruler of the place where dishonored dead go. That's like putting someone in charge of the complaints department and then wondering why they're not cheerful.

The Appearance of Hel: Half Living, Half Dead (And Totally Over Your Comments About It)

Now let's talk about what Hel actually looks like, because this is where mythology gets deliciously specific.

Hel's description in the old sources is pretty consistent: she's half alive and half dead. Some accounts say she's divided vertically (one side living flesh, one side corpse), others say horizontally (top half alive, bottom half dead). Either way, she's walking around looking like a before-and-after photo of mortality itself.

Her living side? Beautiful. Her dead side? Rotting, blue-black, corpse-like.

The symbolism here isn't subtle. Hel IS death. Not the violent, glorious death that gets you into Valhalla, but the slow, inevitable, everyone-gets-there-eventually kind of death. The death of old age. The death of sickness. The death that comes for kings and peasants alike, without drama or heroics.

She's the great equalizer wearing a skin condition.

And here's the thing: the sources never describe her as bothered by her appearance. She doesn't hide it. She doesn't apologize for it. She just... is. Half-dead and fully in charge.

That's power.

Helheim: The Underworld Norse Mythology Needed (But Nobody Wanted to Visit)

So what's Helheim actually like?

Forget Dante's Inferno. Forget lakes of fire and pitchfork-wielding demons. Helheim is cold, misty, and profoundly boring. It's described as being located in Niflheim, one of the primordial realms of ice and fog.

The entrance is guarded by Garmr, a blood-soaked hound who makes Cerberus look friendly. You cross the bridge Gjallarbru over the river Gjöll to get there. Once you're in, you're probably not leaving.

Inside Helheim, the dead just... exist. They're not tortured. They're not in agony. They're in a realm of shadows where nothing really happens. It's less "eternal punishment" and more "eternal waiting room."

Hel's hall is called Éljúðnir (which means "Sprayed with Snowstorms" because apparently even her house is depressing). Her plate is called Hunger. Her knife is called Famine. Her bed is called Sick-bed.

Subtle, right?

But here's what most people miss: Helheim isn't a punishment. It's just where you go if you didn't die heroically. If you weren't chosen by the Valkyries for Valhalla or claimed by Freyja for Fólkvangr, you ended up in Hel's realm.

Most people. Regular people. The farmers, the children, the elderly, the sick. Everyone who died the normal way.

Which means Hel rules over the vast majority of the dead. She's not the goddess of the damned. She's the goddess of the ordinary dead. The goddess of mortality itself.

The Hel and Baldr Story: When Death Said "No" to the Gods

Here's where Hel becomes absolutely central to Norse mythology.

Baldr, the beautiful god, son of Odin and Frigg, has prophetic dreams of his own death. Frigg makes everything in existence promise not to harm him. Everything except mistletoe, because she figured a tiny plant couldn't hurt anyone.

(Spoiler: it could.)

Loki tricks the blind god Höðr into throwing a mistletoe dart at Baldr. It kills him. The gods are devastated. They send Hermóðr, another of Odin's sons, to ride down to Helheim and beg Hel to release Baldr back to the living.

Hermóðr rides for nine days through darkness and cold. He crosses the bridge, passes the hound, and finally reaches Hel's hall. He finds Baldr sitting there, honored but dead, with his wife Nanna (who died of grief) beside him.

Hermóðr pleads with Hel. He offers anything. He explains how much the gods love Baldr.

And Hel, sitting there half-dead on her throne, gives him a deal.

"If everything in the Nine Realms weeps for Baldr, I'll release him. But if even one thing refuses to mourn, he stays."

The gods scramble. They ask everything to weep for Baldr. Rocks weep. Trees weep. Metal weeps. Even ice weeps.

Everything except one giantess named Þökk, who refuses. (Spoiler: it's probably Loki in disguise, because of course it is.)

Baldr stays dead.

Now here's what's fascinating about this story: Hel doesn't have to negotiate at all. She's under no obligation to the Aesir. They literally threw her into the underworld as a child. But she offers them a chance. A fair chance, really.

And when the terms aren't met? She keeps Baldr. Not out of cruelty. Not out of revenge. Because those are the rules. Death doesn't make exceptions just because you're pretty or well-loved.

Hel enforces the natural order. She holds the line between life and death. And when the gods try to bargain their way around mortality, she reminds them: death is permanent.

Even for gods.

Hel's Role at Ragnarok: The Underworld Comes to Party

When Ragnarok rolls around, Hel doesn't sit it out.

According to the Prose Edda, Hel will provide her father Loki with an army of the dishonored dead. These aren't warriors. These are the people who died of sickness, old age, and "dishonorable" deaths. They'll sail to the final battle on Naglfar, a ship made entirely from the fingernails and toenails of the dead.

(Yes, really. The Norse were weird about nails. This is why you were supposed to trim the nails of corpses: to delay the completion of the ship. The more you know.)

So Hel, the goddess of the ordinary dead, shows up at the end of the world with an army of people who were never supposed to be warriors. The farmers. The children. The sick. The forgotten.

She brings everyone the gods deemed unworthy of Valhalla and points them at Asgard.

The symbolism is perfect. The gods created hierarchies of worthy and unworthy deaths. They exiled Hel for being born. They threw the "lesser dead" into her realm and forgot about them.

At Ragnarok, all of that comes back.

Death comes for everyone. Even gods. Even heroes. The ordinary dead rise up. The underworld empties. And Hel, daughter of Loki, ruler of the rejected and forgotten, takes her place in the final battle.

The goddess of death participates in the death of gods.

Hel vs Hades: How Norse Death Differs from Greek Death

Quick side trip because people always ask: how is Hel different from Hades?

Hades is a god who rules the underworld but isn't death itself. Thanatos is death. Hades is more like a king who happens to live underground. He's actually pretty reasonable in most myths, judges souls fairly, and has a whole bureaucracy of river ferrymen and judges.

Hel IS death. She embodies it. She's half-corpse. Her realm isn't organized into levels of punishment and reward. It's just... there. Cold. Misty. Final.

Hades can be bargained with. People escape his realm in Greek myths. Orpheus nearly pulls it off. Hercules literally drags Cerberus out for a day trip.

Hel? She makes one deal in all the myths (Baldr), sets clear terms, and enforces them absolutely. Nobody escapes Helheim. Period.

Also, Hades didn't get his job because the other gods were scared of him as a child. He drew lots with his brothers and got the underworld. It's different.

Hel was exiled. Hades was assigned.

One is a cosmic landlord. The other is an outcast who became inevitable.

Working with Hel: Shadow Work for the Death-Curious

So how do you work with Hel in your personal mythology?

First, understand what she represents: the parts of life and death we don't want to acknowledge. The ordinary end. The non-heroic conclusion. The fact that most of us won't die in battle or go out in a blaze of glory. We'll just... stop.

Hel is the goddess of accepting that.

She's also the goddess of what society rejects. The sick. The old. The disabled. The people who don't fit the "warrior" ideal. Everyone the culture deemed unworthy of the "good" afterlife.

If you've ever felt rejected for not being enough, strong enough, warrior enough? Hel gets it. She was literally thrown away by the gods for being born wrong.

A Hel Practice: The Half-Death Mirror

Sit with a mirror. Really look at yourself. Not the filtered, curated version you show the world. Look at your actual face. The asymmetries. The signs of age. The parts you usually hide or ignore.

One side of your face: this is your living self. The one people see. The mask you wear.

Other side: this is your death self. The one you're becoming. The one you'll eventually be.

Neither is good or bad. Both are you.

That's Hel's teaching. She's both. She doesn't hide either half. She rules her realm with both.

You contain both life and death. The growing and the dying. The beautiful and the decaying. And like Hel, you don't need to apologize for either.

Hel's Real Lesson: Death Doesn't Care About Your Marketing

Here's what Hel really teaches us, stripped of all the mythology:

Death is inevitable. It's impartial. It doesn't care if you were heroic or ordinary, famous or forgotten, beautiful or broken. It comes anyway.

The Norse created elaborate systems to make some deaths "better" than others. Warriors in Valhalla feasting forever. The drowned claimed by Ran. The honorable chosen by Freyja.

But most people? They went to Hel.

And she accepted them all. Without judgment. Without sorting them into more hierarchies. Without caring whether they "deserved" to be there.

She's the goddess who doesn't buy into any of it. The hero worship. The glory culture. The idea that your worth is determined by how dramatically you die.

Everyone ends up facing death eventually. The only question is whether you spend your life pretending it won't happen, or whether you, like Hel, accept it as part of who you are.

Half alive. Half dead. All real.

The trickster laugh here is that the goddess the gods rejected became the most powerful of all. Because everyone—everyone—ends up in her realm eventually.

Even gods die at Ragnarok. But death itself? Death keeps going.

And Hel, daughter of Loki, half-corpse and full ruler, sits on her throne and waits.

Because she's patient.

And she's got all the time in the world.

Or rather, she's got all the time after the world ends.


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